Thanks 2thepoint. My GALS have been going well. As mentioned above I always have lots to do because I've been the wife of a shiftworker who works weekends and odd hours so have always needed to be independent. Unfortunately, my GAL's are no different to my usual way of life. I do enjoy myself. No problems there. My big problem is living with my H who doesn't seem to mind spending time with me. We spend many hours together at home watching movies, cooking and having dinner together. There is no affection towards me from him. I peck him on the cheek occasionally. He doesn't seem to mind. Sometimes I think he is reaching out to me but obviously I can't be sure so I tell myself to detach. Could he be waiting for me to make the first move? I'm not ready for a possible rejection or to move on him too quickly. Jody says patience, patience, patience...establish a friendship which I think we are doing. I'm speaking to her later in the week so will get some more welcome direction.
