Hi busting! and hi NG - Thanks for the ideas. H cannot afford to live elsewhere and support the house. I could but I don't want to support him to live there by himself. I am open to the idea of holding onto it for some time and renting it to see if the market improves. I think in the past I floated that idea and nixed it because I told him if we D'd I didn't want to have any ties to him left over. We'd have to see how much it could rent for. We have a good location that is desirable for a certain segment of the nearby work population but I don't know if it would cover the mortgage. I guess I could ask the realtor I'll be around for later this week what they think we could get for renting it. I do think that the price the realtor he saw last week was too low and more of a "get rid of it ASAP at any cost" type of price. I'm not in that big of a hurry. And he can't sell it without me, so...

Today I just feel like I don't want any kind of R with H going forward. I just don't feel it. I'm fine without him and I don't see us being friends going forward. I don't see it.

I'm irritated that I have to see him again this week for a few days. I am liking my life better without him in it.