i still think you have super human strength to live with him in the midst of this..
truly. i think that you have an undershirt under your clothes with some superpower logo..
could you and H come to an agreement on the finances to keep the house until the market improves a bit? either rent it out or one help the other stay there? you could make an agreement that you will stay for a year, he will pay X towards the mortgage monthly, w/ a revaluation of the finances involved in a year... that is if your realtors feel that the market might be looking up then.. or would making it a rental cover most of the mortgage? just ideas....
i know the market here is just starting to improve in some areas.. a friend recently offered the asking price on a home and got outbid by $75K. Who knows where it is all headed though??
i am thinking about you... stay strong! ((( )))
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13