I realize what you are saying about not being able to find the answers.
Could it be that you might be trying too hard to to beat the clock? These things come in their own time.
Have you ever tried hard on a crossword puzzle and just could not find the right word, then put it down for a awhile and come back to it later, only to find the answer comes easily?
Sometime life's answers are like that. I think sometimes we have to remember the things we heard but didn't necessarily listen to. That comes with time. The brain only goes so fast.
You know what to do, now let your body catch up with your thoughts.
Just my two cents.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12