Val, I understand for I also have similar moments. We were intertwined tightly with our spouses. Unwinding those bonds and letting go will take more effort and time. Keep doing what you've been doing you'll get there. Remember these words posted not so long ago?
Originally Posted By: Val
You have planted the seeds, take a moment to smell the roses. IMO - There is nothing wrong with admiring the growth of your flowers.
Your aplomb will be remembered and appreciated.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill