Just so inspired by the confidence and appearance issues.
I wrote in my journal one year ago that H & I discussed improving my appearance. The next day he bought me a people magazine to look at hairstyles.
At that point he had been 3 years of discontent after his only sibling dying. And just about one year ago, best as I can figure, started his MLC with a vengeance, as it were.
Back to appearance. So I've gone with a curly girl style, all natural, below shoulder length, dyed natural color. We both love it. I'm doing biking and working out, only a couple pounds below my target weight. And I feel great! Sort of, anyway.
I just want to get a better handle on clothes. You are about the same difference age-wise as I am to my H. I totally can't be frumpy, but haven't settled on a decent style for myself that I'm happy with.
For this summer it's tank tops & long flowing skirts. Love it & apparently H does too. Just wish I felt more confident.
I told my IC when H & S12 & I went to the waterpark a coupla weeks ago I only stood up straight when I thought he was watching me! Lol!
I'm attracted by the confidence you have and I haven't even seen you! Wow!
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
