hi bug, not yet. it's this saturday. h had the boat for the 4th and the weekend that followed. funny, he has kept in contact with me daily via text, calls, or email. however, when he took the boat for the 4th and the days that followed, i had absolutley no contact from him.

it's as if he dropped off the face of the earth. he's told me before that he didn't want to hurt my feelings by not having me along with him so maybe that's what was going on in his head? i don't know but i can only control me so i'm trying to always think of ways to keep my spirits up.

he's back at work today and first thing this morning, the texts start! WAS's are such a mystery. i am polite and upbeat. it's all i have control over.

he's coming over to mow the grass this afternoon and bring the boat back so we can leave from here on saturday. he's having dinner with me (i offered to make him a tuna noodle casserole) and said that he's made an appointment with my IC! she's solution based and i just love her. she requested that he see her, too, and i told him about it about 10 days ago and gave him her card. i'm feeling good about him seeing her because she does not feel victimizing and demonizing is the way to help marriages. she believes that, there's a problem and now, what are we going to do to solve it!

all in all, i think things are positive but that's also how i choose to see them.

thanks for dropping by! i love to follow your posts to others!

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing