Meeting a "guy" when you're married is inappropriate, whatever it's called. The question of whether it was a "date" does not even make sense.

I think you will have to set some boundaries for yourself.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing