Originally Posted By: Starsky309


Navy, what's the point of these accusations and confrontations? It's already a GIVEN that your wife lies to you, and is in contact with this guy. You know it; she knows it; she knows that YOU know it.

So what's the point, other than to get into cheeseless tunnels with her fogged-out self, and make yourself feel like KRAP in the process? What is your goal in these confrontations?


Damn good questions. And I wish I had a better answer. W firmly insists that she absolutely does not want to be anything more than friends with this guy...and she says that she has seen nothing from him that tells her he wants to be anything more than friends.

I think my reaction was due to the fact that she lied to me and was trying to cover it up. So I wanted to know if it was a "date" or not, and decide if I can be ok with her doing this or not.

Last night was definitely another cheeseless tunnel, and I feel like total krap today. You couldn't be more right.


BITS
M: 35
W: 35
T14, M11
D9, S6
ILYBINILY: June 09
Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11
W came home: 3/17/11
EE: July 2012
Dropped the rope: Oct 2012
Piecing: April 2013
Not piecing: April 2014
Stuck.