If there's one thing I'd take from this, it's to stop driving by his place, OW's place, and his parent's place -- that's triggering you and you're going off.
Righteous indignation won't bring him back, give counseling a couple months, the fact that he agreed to go was a major positive step, he's only gone once with you and hasn't gone at all by himself yet.
OW is an addiction, it's going to be very hard for him to put it down, very hard. The counselor can help, but it will take time.
I definitely would not storm in there again, you're going to make them all resent you for making them feel badly. You may feel that you won a battle but you set yourself back in the war.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
