Been posting in newcomers for almost a year. Our divorce is well under way. Going to court July 19th for economic mediation and August 7th for child custody mediation. I have decided to buy the house from W. She doesn't want it. Today it's being assessed so I can get a mortgage. Money is gonna be tight will see how it goes. One issue is custody. My D will be 16 this year. In NJ she gets to decide where she spends most of her time, if I understood that correctly. My L asked when did I want to close on the place. I said ASAP. Hoping W will move out. This living together but separate really has been hard.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden