We often think D is the answer, that somehow that piece of paper will make out lives easier. But will it really? The pain will still be there, until it's not and the only way to overcome that is to keep moving forward, taking care of your self.

You may need to file to move on emotionally, I don't know you that well. But if your filing is based on this belief,
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I know without a doubt that I will be gone and he will regret all of these decisions he's making.
then maybe you should wait a while.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss