Ummmm.....$200 for a unique one-of-a-kind piece of art? Why on earth didn't you take it? Why cut your price DOWN?
Oh yeah - because you, like many women and artists, DON'T VALUE YOUR TIME!
Seriously - I bet if you add up the true cost of materials, and ALL of the time spent designing, shopping, and creating - you just got paid less than minimum wage for your art.
I think what the universe is trying to tell you is, if you want to make a living from your art, you need to charge what the market will bear and stop underpricing (and undervaluing) your art!!!