Kevd111

[Kevd111]

Thanks for the welcome. I do wish that I could post quicker but understand the rules regarding moderation and the like.

Still trying to stay positive, but my wife keeps saying she's confused and does not know whether she wants to move forward and work on the marriage (with the MC) or to just move on. The limbo is what is killing me, and in the past week I've found myself on the verge of backsliding and even have had a few moments of weakness in front of her.

Problem is, without working toward a solution and remaining in this purgatory of sorts, I've felt my defenses rise and my heart start to harden. It can't be long before I will just have to tell her to help me work on this marriage or it will be ME who finds that he has to walk away.

Hope some vets can help. I posted a longer explanation in a new-titled thread but I assume that is in moderation still as well. Either way, I could use the support, advice, and maybe even a kick in the butt.

Thanks again.