was my lifesaver. I read DB, and joined this site.
Then DR came out, then I took a KLA (Keeping Love Alive ) seminar (per the recommendation of KentS, a DBer.... and took it along with another DB website member)...the seminar was PACKED. ....I met Michele. The two of us women took it alone, without our loved ones... a lot of folks took the seminar as couples. (DB/DR is for one person; KLA works for an estranged partner or a couple; The Marriage Breakthrough is for couples)
MUCH MORE information than you asked for.
Michele liked my responses to a few folks. I became a moderator and got the KLA tapes. They are also available on CD/MP3 download. It's not that I DB better than anyone else. I just understand the DB principles and am committed to them. And they are successful for me in my life....my relationship with my partner (10 years+ strong and very very happy), with my children, and with my job. These skills are so transferable. And they are about love.
Again--I sense I'm preaching to the choir. You already get it. You should GIVE advice.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001