OK, you make some good points. I don't have a good perspective from my situation. You're taking my suggestions and applying them as if I were saying them to you. I think I'd feel very differently if a woman really wanted to make it work, even if she couldn't desire me. I was thinking more of the scenario I'm familiar with, where I'd have to be almost unrealistically nice and helpful for a few days, and THEN I'd have to beg, insist, and pressure before anything would happen. And then, as she has told me, she would do some very minimal sexual things "out of a sense of guilt". Which was not really insipiring. That's really what I'm talking about. You're not describing your behavior as anything like that, so don't apply my complaints to anyone like yourself!
What do I want to do about my situation? I want to have my cake and eat it too. So I wouldn't mind having multiple wives, or mistresses (since that's legal), all living with me at the same time. Of course, that raises another set of potential problems, unless I could get everyone to be cool with it.
At least that way, chances are better that at least someone will be interested in sex.
