I am really good at GAL because even with my H I was always doing things and keeping myself busy. I joined a Friday vball league (which is new), am planning a lot of girl get togethers, and am hanging out and people new people and guys!! I am also starting to run and work out more!
I am not very good at detaching. I still think about my H a lot and wish we were together, working on things. He did notice again how nice I was when I helped him move because he told one of our mutual friends that I was really nice and helped him and it kills him that I can still be this nice person after everything he has done. AND he only called this friend back, because I suggested that he call him, because I know that this mutual friend misses hanging out with my H, but I think my H just felt weird contacting him, because of our situation. So I hope my H, for his sake, will continue working on his R with this friend!
He also noticed a new tattoo that I got on my wrist...he was really surprised by it...especially in a place that is visible to people. I only have one other tattoo (that the two of us got together :() but it's on my hip and can only be seen in a bathing suit. He still did not say anything about my highlighted hair...whatever though! Haha!
He did text me the other day asking if I found this picture he was looking for and I said I would look when I got home...I texted him that I did not find it and that it should be in one of his boxes and he did not respond.
I also responded to a a text about the divorce proceedings because he wanted me to look at this website and paperwork, which I did, and told him that I did and said that I didn't want to argue about this or our divorce proceedings because we have never been the argumentative or fighting people...that we should compromise on things like we always have! (That was the only text I sent him, because he initiated the texting) He, responded with, "Give me a little bit. I'm getting ready for work. I'll text you later." ...That was three days ago and he's had the whole weekend off.
I still don't understand what is going through his head. I wish I could get inside there.
As for my weekend, it was great! I hung out with friends, went to an AMAZING concert, and even went on a date on Friday, which was good. The guy is enjoyable and I had fun, but I was honest with him and said that I only want to meet new people and make friends....that I didn't want anything serious. He understood and are going to continue our friendship. It still felt weird to not be with my H! Oh well though, life goes on and will continue getting better!
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
