Your thinking should go like this: I'm not calling her because I want to respect her and her decision and give her space. She knows how I feel about the situation and when she's ready to talk to me about it, she will. End of story.

Do not mind read what you think she's thinking. It leads nowhere and you will always make things worse in your head. Calling her right now would be a backslide. Do you want to backslide after how far you've come?

You're doing great... I know this is insanely painful.


Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.