Okay it's after midnight and u should go to sleep.:.but.....my fear is she is way too close to your sitch. If you have a lot of women hitting on you why her? The OM's W? It nice to be reminded that you can be attractive and desirable to someone. And I remember a time when you said that you were never going to love again so I'm glad that thinking is out the window!

Ages ago before I found this board I had been a member of an online dating site and I had met a few guys there. Once I started db'ing i cancelled it and even one of my friends said that she thought I was using it as a distraction. There was one guy who had my email address and he was working abroad. He emailed me every few weeks or so nothing flirty just friendly pictures of where he was sometimes I'd reply sometimes not. When he came home he asked if I'd like to meet up so I thought why not? I had no expectations, I couldn't really remember his pictures.

I had a lot of fun! And he wanted to see me again. But between my other GAL and work I was worrying how to fit in family time. And what dating looks like now that i'm a single mom of a teenager. The day we planned to go out again he got a call that he had to work abroad for 3 more weeks. He took me out for drinks and dinner at a very romantic nice restaurant. And said that he wanted to see me when he got back. I'm not so sure. Nice guy, not the smartest tool in the shed, I don't like that he'd be away so much.....even though I don't know how much of my life i'd want to give up.