I am so sorry for what you are going through. My husband filed for divorce about a month ago and it has been hard. We had only been together for 4 years. I can't imagine the pain you are going through.
I have decided that my husband's choices will not destroy me. I have to move on for mine and my daughter's sake. I have to go on for her. It still hurts and I want us to get back together but I can't focus on all of the negative. It makes me very angry and upset and depressed. I am not in denial but I am doing what needs to be done and trying to focus on that.
I am sure you will get wonderful advice here!
Me:29; W:37 T: 6 M: 4 D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17 H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12 H moved back in: 6/28/12 Confirmed EA: 8/12