Welcome to Divorcebusting.com -- officially. Your signature doesn't work because as a brand new member, you are fully moderated. We aim to approve newbie's posts within 24-48 hrs, but summertime adds variability. I greatly apologize and hope this hasn't caused you distress.
You have great positives that you've reported "I've been good about being happy, upbeat, and non-pressuring. " That is MAJOR...don't underestimate it.
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