It gets frustrating to always be there for her and not get anything in return. But I guess that what love is. Just doing things for the other without expectIng anything in return.
This is one of the first things the DR book talks about. If you want to turn your M around then you have to be willing to be the one to do all the work at first.
Your goals are great. I think that's a great start!!
You will look back on this hard time and realize that you learned a lot about what you're capable of. What you're feeling is normal. Sorry for your pain today...
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
