Tad,

My question is: Why do you continue to let your Ex have the power to keep dragging you in? What are you getting out of this that you keep letting it happen?

Do you think truly happy people keep hammering at their exes especially after they've have gotten what they professed they wanted?

The way she is acing is no longer your problem. Take your power back, Tad. What she is doing at this point is acting out on her misery. Let her go.