I need some goals for the relationship & myself. For the relationship: 1. No arguing 2. No asking what she's doing in free time 3. Be polite 4. No pointing out what I think she is doing is wrong 5. No snooping
For myself: 1. Find interest in something 2. Feel good about self 3. Do not dwell on sitch 4. Be positive 5. Get my things in order for when W moves out 6. Stop talking about W so much 7. Focus on D an keeping her stable