Tad, I know it is difficult to get your mind around, but, this really isnt about you, or the life you had or your sons.
It is about someone who it broken. She HAS to do this. She is trying everything to fix the feelings she has. Got rid of the person closest to her, still not happy. Try to erase the past, still not happy. Marrying someone else, still wont be happy. That is because the unhappiness is within her.
Until and unless she looks inside, she will continue to try to find happiness.
I dont care what it seems like to you, she is not happy. How can you be if you have done what she has?
But it really and truly doesnt matter if she is or she isnt, Tad. There is nothing you can do about it. There is nothing you can change. This is all on her.
You keep trying to understand something that is impossible to understand completely unless you have gone through it.
Leave her to her life. She can try to erase the past all day long, but, it happened.
You know the truth. You have the memories.
Let it go, Tad. Set yourself free. Leave her to walk this path.
You walk yours.
Keep the memories safely tucked away. Look forward in your life and make new memories.
