mab, you can surmise all you want but where does it get you? Even if you really could mindread her and understood everything about every thought she has, how would that help you? She is responsible for her stuff, you are responsible for your stuff.
Have you read any of the books on codependency? You should really look into that.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
