I just wanted to comment that I thought it was a good thing your W is telling you how she feels and misses her family. Like Accuracy, my H has not once said he misses the family, or anything of what he has le behind. And FWIW, that's another sting to have to deal with emotionally and mentally. So look at it as a positive for now.
Take care,
Busting
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home