Something The Boys And I Have Noticed

[AJM]

Tad, I can only echo snodderly's post. I have seen it first hand and she is spot on. They run, they erase, but as the old saying goes, "if you bury feelings alive, they come back to haunt." Sad really, since it never had to be that way. But it is, so let it be.

Mine did the exact same things yours is doing. Almost like they are in tandem. [bold]But it doesn't stop Tad until you stop it[/bold]. As late as this weekend my ex is trying to pick a fight with me. Why? Haven't a clue and didn't ask. In fact, I kept the comm to an absolute minimum.

Know what? I felt better because I did keep it to a minimum.
Know what else? I had a great weekend and that became but a moment of my time.

As a suggestion, try to limit the amount of headspace time she gets to as few days as possible a week as a start. Be dilligent. During that time, refuse to deal with her in any way and in your head. Then let it out during those prescribed times only. When that's done, put it away again.


AJ