its an issue that came up in my last session and we'll be going over it more. Apparently, it also came up as an issue for my wife in her IC. She told me last weekend. I think it's one of the biggest hurdles we'll have to overcome if we do try to reconcile. I know it's one of the driving forces behind her decision to leave. Throw in her worries about having children and what she feels are issues between me and her family and there are some major problems which she currently feels are insurmountable. I don't feel they are and it shows just how attached I am that just the thought of her saying I don't want to get back together sends fear down my spine.