oh and one more thing - fil has been so pained around me the last 10 months -and today - he was smiling and laughing with me and seemed so happy to talk with me. it was so nice - i don't think i've ever felt him being so relaxed while interacting with me
good things happen when i let go, that's what i am discovering...
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"