Bank she worked at isn't bank that mortgage is with, thank God! I've decided to contact the best divorce lawyer in town that I can find. He has a 250 buck consultation fee, so I'm going to go in with as many questions to get answered as I can.

What makes me most sad is that she is still up to her tricks over a year later. So hard to stay nice when I talk to her, since she pretends like nothing is wrong. Ugh.

We have shared custody. Not sure why she wants to eliminate my vacation with boys. I'm wondering if this is an opportunity to ask for reduced child support? I pay an arm and a leg, but my income will probably be reduced this year and I might lost my biggest client, which would reduce income by over 50%. On the positive side, I'd be poorer but have more freedom with time. And maybe less child support?