thanks labug - when i first read that i had no idea what you were talking about - i thought you were reply to unbidden.
she is seeing a therapist - and i got the impression that she wasn't satisfied with her therapy.
i am planning to do EXACTLY what you said - just listen to HER, and leave my impressions/thoughts completely out of it - and see where she's really at. maybe all she needs right now is someone to listen,nothing more,
found out, i think why this is put on my plate right now - i've been given the opportunity to practice listening, putting myself out of the equation. i'm sure more lessons are there, that i don't expect, and that i will only find out when it's time for me to!
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"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"