W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P3

[Snowman]

reachinghigher-Thanks for the suggestion but I don't think it is diet. My wife has tried many different diets in her impulsive ways with no change. At this point she wouldn't listen to me anyway if I suggested such a thing.

I have not typed all my W's behavior but there is story after story to share. The more I research the more I know that she has it. She has well over the required number of symptoms according to the DSM evaluations that clinicians use to diagnose. I have found a lady who blogs about her own BPD and her symptoms per the DSM criteria and my W sounds so close to her it is scary. This is not a problem that just popped up rather it has been there the whole time. I feel like I have been so abused I don't know a healthy relationship if I saw one.

At this point I need to heal and detach so I can continue on. She will not get help because she has pushed all those people that love her and know her out of her life. She is now dressing extremely promiscuous and has yet again had a pic posted with another guy as told to my sister by a person I barely know nor talked to.

I will confirm my thoughts with a professional but it would take a drastic different idea that fits the many symptoms to be convinced otherwise. This is so hard to explain to others because I am the one that has lived so close to it so long I got use to it and others only saw things here and there.

I will keep you all posted.