Wow vero what a timeline of growth you have shared. I am so inspired! I think it might be normal to not 'get it' right away. I know I thought I did and now I am just realising ...just touching the tip of understanding that I have probably not even begun. So to read what you have written gives me understanding.

How are you?

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home