Chances are there was a GF before he walked out the door. Men like to have it look like to their friends that they met after the divorce or after a long separation. You know, gee she was not around before I moved out sort of thing.
My ex did that. Acted like he met her a bit after the divorce, moved in with her and married her. Our close friends know the truth. Funny that he doesnt hang out with them much any more.
Hoping the best for you both. It isn't an easy road to travel, but you do come out the other side.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory