He started to back off approximately several weeks ago. I know he has been very stressed at work lately.

When he first came back, I could not have sex because of complications from my surgery. Which he was very understanding about. And it seemed like then, he was interested in it. Now that I can, it seems like he is not interested in me at all.

I haven't noticed any other changes. Trust me, I have been paying attention.

As far as MC, no, we have not talked about it. In the past, we have found some lousy ones and the thought of finding a new one and starting over kills me. I am sure if I really wanted too, he would be all for it.

Maybe it's just me.

thanks for responding.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)