Originally Posted By: veroprado
EX. I received 10 missed calls from H while I was putting the kids to bed. He was worried that I had heard more gossip and was ignoring him. I comforted him by letting him know that I'm ok and that if I hear gossip again, I will be much more mature about it.

I have a feeling I shoulda just said, I was busy with bedtime and left it at that, right?


You did perfectly fine with your response.

Originally Posted By: veroprado
this made me realize H wants me to be happy, w or w/o someone else, but not him.


You will find that both yours and your H's feelings will change over the course of time just like they did to get to this point. I wouldn't put too much stock into that interaction, other than you can communicate with each other in a civil manner. That in and of itself is a good thing.


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