AJ-

Right now I don't know if it was because her lawyer didn't like her so much as this lawyer was doing her job as a hobby. She is a wife of a prominent judge in town and practices without any staff under her. She reported that she is basically retiring after this case. She has been known to hate paperwork, going to court; basically all the things that make being a lawyer if you ask me.

Part of me is miffed for having to pay my L to do STBXW's dirty work. I am basically paying for this divorce because my L is doing all the leg work. But I guess that might be the price of having better mental health. After all I guess it is just money.

I think STBXW took her as a L because she was probably dirt cheap and was expecting me to just do a stipulated D through her without protecting myself.

Anyway, it is now 4:30pm an I think that in a half hour I am going to break into the piggy bank, go to the local butcher shop, get the biggest steak I can find, and grill it. D1 is off with STBXW to her parent's place 170 miles away so I have the place to myself.

Heck, I might even break out the bubble bath! (I know a man taking a bubble bath... (shakes head))


Thanks for all your help!


M:35
W:33
M: 5 yrs.
Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10
D Final: 8/7/12