I'm having a hard time with these SSM low drive or low needs people that really think that they should not meet in the middle somewhere.
When the "discrepancy" is such that the LD person wants no sex, what does it mean to "meet in the middle"? Half of what the HD person claims he/she wants? In which case I think the HD person would tend to claim to want twice what they'd be happy with. And besides, it's kind of depressing that you've committed to having sex only with a person who never enjoys it. It's not easy.
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And to realize that the low SEX is just one symptom of a bad marriage.
I would disagree with the potentially implied statement that low sex only results from a bad marriage. LD can be the initial cause, and sometimes a couple can manage to hold everything else together pretty well even while the sexual discrepancy is not resolved.
