strange thing happened earlier today.

wife of h's good friend, the one i've reconnected with in the last couple of months - called to ask if i would agree to meet a co-worker of hers who is having a really hard time.

turns out she had an A - her h moved out after she confessed (and i think wanted to make things good) and it triggered off a big MLC.

when friend asked if she would like to talk with me, who was on the other side of a similar sitch - she leaped at it and said definitely - anything to help.

i asked friend why she thought of me, and she said - all the stuff that this woman talks about are what you told me about your h - you understand so much that i think you can help her.

so here i am - wondering - hmm - why is this being given to me, what will i learn here? we are meeting next friday, the three of us.

i'm just going to listen.

does anyone have any suggestions of reading materials for her - should she come here? it seems to me that the h should come here. i don't really know the whole story, of course. friend said she doesn't know what she wants or where she wants her life to go

strange development...


me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"