Also, once you've told a couple folks who can be your support system, stop there. Each time you retell it you're going to feel worse, and then you'll have more people asking you for updates. Rein it in, keep it close.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015