So I tried to brighten the W's day in a non-pursuit fashion this morning, had no expectations but to see the reaction and mindset of a WAS to the simplest of things really puts a flashlight on where there head is at.
So a friend of mine has this really cute tiny poodle I had taken a picture of, my wife loves cute dogs so I thought it may make her smile. I sent here the picture and a text:
Me: Hey, Happy Friday!
W: Don't send me pictures from your girlfriends house.
This baffles me, I sent a dog sitting on an ottoman on a hardwood floor with normal furniture in the background. I am not dating anyone so I am not sure where this assertion came from on her part, just weird really so I don't read anything into it.
Me: I don't have a girlfriends house... I was just trying to brighten your day. It's Friday put a smile on your face! How are you doing?
W: I'm ok
Me: Well I hope you get better! How's <sister> doing? If there's anything I can do to help you or her out just let me know. I know you have helpers (e.g. her kids) but does <sister> need her grass cut or anything?
W: She's fine. She gets her tube out next week.
Me: How much weight has she lost? You are still funny to me, why on earth would I be sending you pictures "from a girlfriends house" lol. You're goofy ;-). I hope you have a good weekend!
This really was a pointless exercise, just basically wanted to let her know I was thinking about them and see if there was anything I could do... At least I didn't persue right? Hell I haven't seen her since Valentines day I should be off the pursuit hook I think lol
I'm not mindreading on it anymore but it is funny that her music listening habits continue to be a constant barrage of woe is me/take me back tunes. Unchained Melody, Remind Me, I told you so etc over and over again... If only the saying were true that the lyrics of a woman's favorite song is how she feels....
Big golf weekend/catching up with my buddies this weekend. I'm lucky that this whole GAL program comes naturally or me.
Everyone enjoy your weekend and good luck to all in your respective sitch's!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
