I'm trying to get the books, too trusting, but we are on a trip camping with the inlaws for a week. We go every year and its a good time for us to be together.
no worries, WS! actually this camping trip when you are all together is a great time to practice the rules that 25MLC posted. this will be sufficient for a start, and you can read either or both of the DB/DR books when you get home.
be patient, as 25MLC & Starsky point out, this will take time. but there is light *for you* at the end of the tunnel if you slow down, take a deep breath, and play your cards right.
we are all here cheering for you and your marriage! wishing you best of luck!
