I agree with you about the MLCer principles and an intensive being counter to what works according to the good people on this board. I have emailed Michele directly to see what she thinks, giving her a little of our background. I know she references people who meet with her as being on the brink or in the middle of a divorce. But that might be with two parties who want to see if there is anything to salvage, not a MLCer dragging his feet.