I actually do all of those things. I started doing them all hard-core after the bomb (and still do) and they worked. I felt better, she wanted to come back.
I'm in great shape, workout 6 days a week. Just ran a 10k this weekend.
I spend lots of time with her and kids. I even got a different job that required less time, so I'd have more time at home.
That's part of my frustration...
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