Navyguy, it might help you both to look at the book, "codependent no more". It has helped me see that I was letting too much of my H's moods and happiness (or lack thereof) effect my happiness.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing