well mac when you realize its not about her again. Let me know.
Your falling back to old habits.
Shake it up and do something new for a change.
Walking around on egg shells or attempting to provoke anger is a lose lose situation.
All I am saying is go live your life. Healthy and productive.
You know if she gets angry cause you went out and did not say anything.
Then you can validate with a truth dart.
"Wife. I hear what your saying. Are you saying that we need to discuss our plans and activities with each other? I am willing to start this if you are."
something like that.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!