Thanks HIW, really appreciate this info. I'm sorry to find myself here too!
I think D suxx for everyone, because my H is going to be paying so much money, we may have both most of our savings tied up in the house equity, it's just going to be a different life for all of us. It still seems unfathomable that someone would choose that over marriage counseling. Even just to see if it can be repaired.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
