So my W posted on facebook "Family is not always blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theres; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile and that love you no matter what"
Sigh....
Look Tinman....
Her choice is to leave the marriage....
And UNTIL SHE CHANGES HER MIND....
Her choice will remain to leave the marriage...
I would expect that the reason her comments hurt so much, is because you see your failures in her words.
Is she right ?
Is that why it hurts ?
One of the reasons that DB doesn't support snooping, is because of the hurt that usually comes along with it.
Don't touch the hot stove....OUCH Don't touch the hot stove....OUCH Don't touch the hot stove....OUCH Don't touch the hot stove....OUCH
Had enough ????
Stop touching that hot stove...
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It has been another 3 days with no contact until I called and left a voice mail a few hours ago. She is taking the state lisence test for Psycology so I called her and said "I just wanted to call cause tomorrow is a big day for you but I know you will do great! Not that you need any but good luck tomorrow. Take care"
Her post makes me feel so bad. I am sure I should not read into it but I so want to be the one to make her smile:-(
Am I reading too much into this?
She didn't post it to make you feel bad....I can assure you that.
Why is everything about you ?
What YOU want...
What YOU need...
What YOU feel...
What about what YOU can blindly give ?
Oh, and Tinman.....
Maybe you should oil your jaws a little less...????