don't fee bad about trying to fill your tank in other ways. i find myself feeling embarrassed that sometimes i'm downright showing off, and then feel a bit goofy. but we were used to, on some level getting constant feedback from our spouses when together - so we do feel deprived.
i do have a bit of trouble with that concept - there's a huge difference for me between getting a hug or compliment from friends and family, than it is to get intimacy and physical touch from someone i'm in love with and feel really attracted to. so it's a different kind of thing we are getting, and i don't feel it's the same.
glad you slept extra - i've been going to bed a tad brit earlier and it does make a difference - one of the things i have to work on for my personal goals
go check those cars out - and don't feel bad about not having owned a car - so many haven't..
((( ))) zig
ps. we've all got to stop being so down on ourselves about our shortcomings!!!
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
